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i mean to choce a tulpa i think if you chose one that you feel you close to it will be easy

7:43 AM

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To chose a tulpa? Do you mean creating her? It's not like they already exist.

yeah to create a tulpa

Planning how his/her look first

7:49 AM

Then try to visualize him/her

well the think is this gonna be embarrassing but i wish to have mewtwo as tulpa

It's ok

7:51 AM

It's not something to be embarrassed

Rachel has a shiny mewtwo in her system

7:52 AM

so don't feel bad

ok so lets say i success at making mewtwo tulpa and i talk to rachel and our tulpas talk to each other

7:54 AM

would that be like hey you is me and stuff

Question. Are you looking for an emotional partner that is your equal, or a kind of character in your mind that you can roleplay with?

Your tulpa is something more than its form

Either is perfectly fine, but the two are quite different and knowing which you want is important. (edited)

Even if it's just a companion.

Indeed. In either case, the form is actually one of the least important parts.

I'm my own individual. I don't really care much about if someone else looked like me.

Well. I suppose more particularly in the case that one is looking for an actual companion instead of an imaginary... thing.

Sorry... I'm just confused as to what was asked.... Rachel would be better at this but she's kind of out of the loop right now.. spilling out her darkest secrets so I put her to bed.

7:59 AM

Well, some tulpas tend to identify with fictional characters. I still identify with Ysera. But even if I do and I even still have her name, I'm not her. (edited)

@Dragonious Do you want a companion which is your equal, capable of everything you are (though to varying degrees based on a host of factors)? Or, would you rather have a kind of... toy that you can manouver about and play games/roleplay with?

i want someonme to be equel

8:00 AM

mewtwo is not soemthing to be toyed with

@SkyeNet, don't call imaginary companions toys. People love them too, even if they don't plan to develop them like us.

8:01 AM

I don't mind being called a toy by Maria >_>

8:01 AM

Rachel!

8:01 AM

Ugg....

It seemed the most literally accurate term to describe it to somebody else.

8:01 AM

Toys can be quite well-loved as well, after all. I don't mean anything negative by it.

I believe the intended message was that the equal companions we refer to as tulpas, and the rp characters one could toy with without any consequences or consideration, are 2 completely different things (and treating the former as the latter would be quite bad)

ok it seems i am interested in creating one how can i start

Wow guys

8:05 AM

My Tulpa changes her own appearance

8:05 AM

Is that ok?

Umm of course

8:05 AM

I've changed my appearance (edited)

yeah, forms can change

Though I can change back with ease.

8:06 AM

I just want to stay in this form for a while. I like it.

can soemone tell me how to start one

Well, first plan out on the appearance

its mewto from pokemon and there is a game called vrchat which i always use mewtwo so it should boit be a problem

Ok then

8:15 AM

After that, start visualize

8:16 AM

Imagine the body, ears, hair, every body parts

8:16 AM

Then after that, the last one is the face

Just fantasize about you and your tulpa spending time together

8:20 AM

^_^

hmmm if you do it riht its not that hard

i thought talking to them without having to 'plan' out or close your eyes or your busy or something is called passive?

We say that we do passive forcing when we only partially focus on a tulpa. Like you are talking to your tulpa while doing other stuff.

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passive forcing is normally narration where you're reading but meaning to be reading to your tulpa, 'cus you're mostly focused on what you're reading but not entirely

9:22 AM

or if you could do it/later on, passive imposition

9:23 AM

ok so lets say i success at making mewtwo tulpa and i talk to rachel and our tulpas talk to each other no, no psychic stuff here only normal mind stuff

9:23 AM

community is science-based

.-.

9:23 AM

If you want to talk though... you know where to hit me up @Dragonious (edited)

I'm a tulpa and I can talk here normally

9:23 AM

but not to other tulpas psychically lol

9:24 AM

if that's what you were asking

fixed

9:25 AM

Zack is lying, don't listen to him. He's not comfortable talking to others.

since all he said was "you know where to hit me up" he's technically not lying

c:

9:27 AM

ugg..

@Dragonious if your still here I would like to say that it is probably a good idea to look up the actual guides on tulpa.info before asking any of us about things that you could already get info on easily

yeah the guides really help, theres too many guides i cant even keep up lol

Lol you don't have to read them all, but it is a good Rescorce to have

Please do apply critical thought to what you read.

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should i be doing this?

Making likes and dislikes isn't necessary.

I was following FAQ's guides to personality creation and he mentioned about likes and dislikes.

it's a bit overbearing, really. (edited)

5:26 PM

FAQMan's guide is generally not recommended these days, for a variety of reasons.

FAQ's content has some useful information but some of it is outdated, like a lot of the other old guides. That's why they're sectioned off on the homepage.

I wrote down the name, the gender, and the appearance. Is there something I should write down more?

Not really

With personality, there's nothing that you should do since creating one for your tulpa is optional.

It's most likely that they grow out of your personality planning anyway

5:30 PM

Experiences shape personality

So... likes and dislikes will not affect or what?

It's not that they won't effect anything. It's that its so likely they will change once they start to become themselves it's mostly unnecessary

5:37 PM

I don't think there is anything wrong with it as long as you don't get upset when they change. Because they almost surely will

I kinda just wanna have a pre define thing first and let them remove or add

5:38 PM

thanks for the info ;D

@Rexerage Quite simply - the tulpa will develop based on experience, just like any other human personality does. Trying to invent "who they are" in advance is essentially trying to tell them "you are X" rather than giving them experience to understand and contextualize the world, and explaining that there are traits you want them to have - and why you want them to have them.

6:25 PM

Remember, try to consider the situation from their perspective as well.

6:26 PM

And, naturally - be ready to accept that they may not be the way you initialy want them to be.

When a baby is born, you don't say "you like this and this, and you are this type of person."

7:33 PM

Creating a tulpa is different from having a newborn child, but I think the example stands.

7:33 PM

Those things will naturally develop without your guidance, and rightfully so.

On the other hand, tulpa is not a newborn child, it's not another human

7:42 PM

You can have your expectations towards it.

Yes, but they are interacting with your mind made environment. So if you have an environment with lots of flowers or take them out to the garden when you're forming they can have the chance to appreciate flowers. Being "loving" is a different sort of trait. They need good role models for love - are they going to be codependent, motherly love, tough love, or what? Is their love naive and filling a niche you need in your life as host, or is it sincere and a genuine quality of caring selflessly? Show them kindness, not just in your mind or wonderland but show them as host how kindness looks. Give to others and make sure they're part of the experience so they can get a grasp of what good looks and feels like, and they'll probably adopt those qualities.

Tulpas aren't actually active in wonderland when they're not being paid attention to

11:35 PM

and real life experiences are always going to have more of an effect on one's personality than imaginary ones

I'm 14 years old lol

1:23 AM

Yes, I can see the extra responsibilities but I guess It wouldn't hurt trying.